writing – Beeshive

Two little resistors, so much headache.

Every now and again something pops up that brings Richard back with full force.

I will be so very happy when I am finally freed of Richard.

I started getting into BACnet at the hospital back around 2019 when the outside contract management was replaced with in house management.

Our plant was so far in the dark ages. Pneumatics still make up the vast majority of our controls.

One of the first thing that I started doing when I became the Chief engineer was to start nibbling away at a lot of the inadequacies of our ancient automation systems. And this is where BACnet came in.

I’ve never used BACnet prior to this position. Networking I’ve done. I’ve worked with RS-485 networks before. I’ve got decent knowledge of controls. I’ve also learnt that proprietary licenced controllers are no longer the only way to accomplish automation.

One of the reasons that I’ve taken a shine to ABB drives over the last few years is that they can run by themselves without the need for expensive proprietary controllers that can only be programmed with expensive proprietary software developer kits, proprietary interfaces, and exorbitant licencing fees.

I’ve also installed various other devices that further expand the monitoring capabilities of the system.

But, there was always one piece of equipment that I could never get to work reliably.

With RS-485 networks, the network is supposed to be laid out in one continuous daisy chain. The network is not supposed to have stars or stubs.

Daisy Chain is good.

Stars, rings, backbone with stubs, backbone with stars are bad.

That’s where repeater hubs come in to play.

Or at least so I thought.

Some of the equipment would work fine on a hub, some equipment would work at super slow baud rates, and some equipment absolutely refused to operate at all.

I could never figure out what was going wrong. I thought that my dream of expanding BACnet all over the hospital was a dying dream.

Recently I happened across some documents from Texas Instruments talking about recommended design of circuits using their RS-485 transceiver chips used in communication equipment.

Up to this point in time I had always used MSA Fieldserver BACnet routers as the interface for the network loops. On the router are switches for each port.
Bias (+)
Bias (-)
Term

I had always set the positive and negative bias on, and of course the terminator resistor was turned on. I would also set the terminator resistor at the end of the loop to be on as well.

Well, being the complete idiot that I am, I never noticed that the hubs that I was using, and I’ve tried three different brands, had termination resistors, but they had no bias resistors.

I should have clued into the fact that the outputs of these hubs are galvanically isolated.

To be galvanically isolated, the outputs can’t be tied high to a common power supply nor can the outputs be tied low to a common ground. And this is why they couldn’t have biasing resistors.

This means that while the network was terminated, the 0 and 1 levels were not being defined properly and they’d go all over the place due to common mode voltage.

Some equipment like my ABB drives could handle the floating loop, but other equipment obviously expected the loop to not only be terminated, but to be biased. Equiment like the ABB drives can actually supply the bias voltages for the loop. Most of my other equipment can’t supply the bias voltages.

So, with the knowledge of my lack of knowledge in hand, and with Richard laughing widely in my brain, I soldered up a pair of 4.7k resistors with some hookup wire and some heat-shrink.

The resistors that were missing were the RFS1 and RFS2 which form the bias for the network. The two RT resistors are the termination resistors.

With this diagram as a reference, RFS1 = 4700 ohms, RT = 120 ohms, and RFS2 = 4700 ohms.

As soon as I connected RFS1 from the DC power rail to terminal (A) the LED on the port actually illuminated and started flickering on and off indicating data transmission. And once RFS2 was connected from (B) to ground the intensity of the LED changed the flashing was more defined. A check of my laptop showed that all communication errors on this node went away and all of the devices were back on line.

Why did some equipment work while others didn’t?

Simple.

The ABB, Yaskawa, and Schneider variable speed drives that I have in use at the hospital all have the capability to inject bias on to the loop.

Other equipment that I have such as the flow meters and the actuators typically don’t have the ability to inject bias into the network, and so the network common mode voltages will go all over the place. If the network is allowed to float all over the place the transceivers get confused.

But Bobbie, people make mistakes all the time, you caught this one.

No, the one problem that I face is that I have no paperwork, therefore when I make a mistake it’s because I’m an outright moron. When people with degrees and certificates create massive mistakes, fuhgeddaboudit, don’t worry about it.

It’s actually quite funny, but in a sad and tragic way.

Trades, certificate programs, diploma programs, they’re all made for people without scars. You got scars? Piss off and get outta here.

Well Bobbie, it’s your own damn fault, you should have taken a real trade when you were younger, don’t bitch at us.

Back in my day, to get into the trades you needed either the support of your family or the support of social services.

That wasn’t going to happen.

Being a military dependent is odd in the sense that because you’ve moved amongst the provinces, you’re the other province’s issue.

When I found myself unemployed during Alberta’s recession in 1991, Alberta was willing to give me a bus ticket back to Ontario.

When I first moved to Vancouver in 1992, BC Social Services was more than willing to give me a bus ticket back to Alberta.

When I moved out to Toronto in 1993, Ontario wanted to buy me a bus ticket back to Nova Scotia. Sure, I was born in Nova Scotia. Ain’t got any family out there. My father just happened to the stationed at Canadian Forces Base Shearwater when I popped out.

Your father’s employed with the Canadian Armed Forces, you don’t qualify for this aid program.

You’re a military brat, surely the Canadian Forces is the place for you.

This training program only covers you if you meet these criteria points.

You have no collateral.

You’re gonna need somebody to co-sign a loan for you.

Can’t you get a job where your employer will let you take paid time off whenever you need too?

Find your mother, she’ll fund you.

Tell your father you’re sorry for fucking with his military career when you got abused by Captain McRae and maybe he’ll give you some money.

Why don’t you shack up with someone and let them pay your bills.

What about finding a program that takes your knowledge into account?

Those programs typically existed back in the ’70s and ’80s, but they don’t exist any longer. Basically you’d have to interrupt your entire life and take a full-on trade program that may or may not give you any credit for your adult experience.

I am so looking forward to this…….

As I’ve said before, I will be so devastated if the Government of Canada falls through on implementing Medical Assistance in Dying for reasons of Mental Health.

Privacy

Sometimes you gotta wonder what drives companies like Apple to shape their “privacy” policies like they do.

Sometime around July 31st, 2024 my brother Scott fell and died in his apartment.

Looks like he had been participating in a “Ketamine Infusion Therapy” program and became addicted to Ketamine. According to Scott’s landlord Scott had graduated from snorting Ketamine to injecting Ketamine.

His death wasn’t noticed until he started leaking through the floor into the suite below.

The VPD contacted me on August 12th, 2024 on behalf of the Edmonton Police Service to inform me of the death. They gave me the contact information for the EPS officer investigating the matter.

I contacted the EPS officer and she gave me some of the details. She asked me to contact the Alberta Coroner to make arrangements for the disposal of Scott’s body.

The Alberta coroner told me that I’d have to wait until the official cause of death was determined and then someone had to collect his body from the coroner’s office and have it buried or cremated.

I asked the coroner if they had tried to contact anyone else.

Nope. They couldn’t find anyone else.

I contacted the EPS officer and asked her if they tried to contact his former wife or any of his girlfriends or even our stepmother in Morinville, AB.

The stepmother was unreachable and the phone numbers I had for Richard were not in use anymore.

I had no contact information for the former wife or any of his girlfriends, and the police couldn’t find anything else.

I was therefore the only legal next of kin.

And the police had no indication of any other information.

So, I made arrangements with the Alberta coroner and a crematorium to have my brother’s body transferred there and I would pick the ashes up.

I made the trip up to Edmonton and went to his apartment to try to locate any documents or records.

It wasn’t safe to walk around in there as the floor had been removed from the apartment as his bodily fluids had spilt all over the place and ruined the flooring.

Even though most of the flooring had been removed, the stench of his death and decomposition was still overwhelming in the suite. I couldn’t spend more than 10 minutes in the space before becoming overwhelmed with the urge to vomit.

Apparently his cats had been shitting and pissing all over the apartment. They had found one of the cats, but the last cat was hiding out in the joist space under the floor and was continuing to shit and piss all over the place. The cats had been drinking the water out of the toilet and had emptied the toilet out to the point that sewer gas was coming into the apartment.

From what I’ve been able to piece together, Scott received an inheritance from Richard when Richard died. Scott had used his inheritance to buy this “condo”. I say “condo” as this seems to be a scam going on in Edmonton where old apartment buildings are turned into condos and the apartment suites are sold off as condo units.

Scott’s ketamine habit had increased to the point that he sold off his condo for cash and was renting it back from the person that he had sold it to. This probably explains his urgency to settle the class action lawsuit with the Canadian Forces and why he kept getting agitated when I’d inform him that the DND and the CAF were doing everything in their power to delay the initiation of settlement negotiations until after I underwent M.A.i.D..

Scott had texted me around July 29th, 2024 asking about the settlement. So I think he was at the end of his rope. His depression and his anxiety were obviously keeping him from regular employment, his Amazon business wasn’t doing good. So, I can’t help but wonder if he took the final jab of Ketamine to escape the impending collapse of his world due to all of his creditors looking for money.

I did manage to grab his iPhone, his Apple watch, and his Macbook.

Now, you’d think that it would be a simple matter to call up Apple and either get access to my brother’s accounts to at least find contact information for his friends and girlfriends and ex-wife.

Fuck no.

Why would a certificate of death and a certificate of cremation mean anything to Apple? It’s like these silly fucking companies just throw all common sense out the fucking door. It’s the easiest way for them to insulate themselves from having to give a fuck in the slightest.

I know that when Richard died, Sue gave Scott all of our childhood pictures that Richard had. Scott told me after we started talking again that he just threw the pictures in the garbage. But Scott doesn’t do shit like that. He would have scanned the pictures for himself. Just the way he was.

But again, does a certificate of cremation with my name and address listed on an official document matter?

Nope.

“We need you to go to court and become appointed as his executor”……

Fuck that.

I paid $2,500 for the cremation of a brother that I was estranged from due to our father’s shitty parenting skills.

And now Tim Cook and Apple want me to dish out $7k to $10k to be appointed his “executor”?

So far I have been contacted by just about every credit card and service provider in Canada looking for payment of his extensive debts.

The running total of his debts is over $60k.

Not being the executor means that I’m not responsible for these debts at all.

Which is great because I don’t think he had any assets. And the headache of being appointed his executor just isn’t worth the hassle of paying for a private investigator to try to track down all of his relations to see if they had a will or access to his assets.

“BuT boBbIe, If YoU dOn’T wAnT tO bE hIs ExEcUtOr WhY sHoUlD yOu HaVe AcCeSs To HiS aCcOuNt”…..

Well, the Edmonton Police Service, the Alberta Coroner, and the Alberta Government have declared that I am his sole next of kin. Why the fuck do I need a court order declaring the exact same thing?

If Scott thinks that I wrongfully had him cremated he can call the police and make a complaint.

Instead we get companies like Apple that try to absolve themselves of any responsibility by hiding behind almost insurmountable barriers.

You would think that if anyone wanted any proof of my legal relationship to my brother that it would be the Edmonton Police Service, the Alberta Coroner’s Service, or even the crematorium.

Nope, everyone was fine with me claiming my brother’s body and having my brother’s body cremated, but Apple wants to be the paragon of legal “i” dotting and “t” crossing.

If it wasn’t for Microsoft being even more dysfunctional and dystopian than Apple I would never have switched to Apple back in 2021.

And yes, this is the problem when basically two tech companies and their lawyers lock everything down.

Why does Apple do this?

Dead people don’t need privacy.

Can you imagine what would happen if the police could convince the next of kin of a cartel member or an arms smuggler to allow law enforcement to have access to their next of kin’s equipment?

Just imagine what would happen if one of Jeffrey Epstein’s multiple clients died and their estranged next-of-kin had access to their Apple account and their hardware?

Even if Apple wasn’t worried about retribution, they would surely be worried about the sale of their equipment to people wishing to hide things from prying eyes, and instead of having a policy that takes individual circumstance into account, it’s just better to have a blanket policy no matter how tone deaf the policy actually is.

What the fuck more does Apple want?

What the fuck can a court do that these documents can’t?

What do I do at work

At work I generally work so far out of my qualifications that it’s not funny.

And I think this is one of those issues that cause so much conflict between myself and my subordinates.

Power engineers are employed at hospitals like the one as I work at as provincial regulations require power engineers to be on shift to supervise and operate the power plant.

Power engineers are not trade qualified millwrights or industrial mechanics. You can have power engineers that have more qualification, such as a 4th class with a millwright’s ticket, or a 3rd class with an electrical ticket.

We take rounds and readings, make sure that chemical readings are done and that chemical levels are maintained properly. We supervise the boilers, the chillers, the heat recovery systems to ensure that the systems are running as efficiently as possible while maintaining the proper temperatures, air flows, and pressure differentials for the infection control.

I came into this position offering more skills than what is typical of a 4th class power engineer. But this is how I’ve always been. It’s always something that I’ve had to do in order to offset my horrific personality.

After all, when you don’t have any safety nets to fall back upon, you learn how to make yourself valuable.

This is one of the reasons it was always so easy for me to find employment in the bowling industry. Since the ’80s computers and electronics have found their way into bowling centres. Most centres didn’t have anyone that was familiar with electronics and so they would bleed with the electronic repairs. I come along, I can do the mechanical work with ease, but I can also do the electronic repairs in-house, which brings the expenses down substantially, considering that I’m getting paid the same amount as the mechanic with no skills in electrical, electronics. This makes me valuable even though I wasn’t making that much. Better to be poor and employed than poor and unemployed.

I have skills in electronics, networking, DDC, pneumatic controls, etc.

Working with machinery like the fan motor above is something that I can do.

Once I moved into the Chief Engineer’s position there was a sort of resentment directed towards me by the others in my section because there was no one doing the heavy duty work anymore.

Work that I had been doing since I started at the hospital fell to the wayside. Somehow I was not only unqualified to do the work, but now I was being lazy for not doing the work.

One thing that I’ve had to learn over the last few years is that mechanical aptitudes cannot be taught. A person either has a mechanical aptitude, or they don’t. And it’s no use banging your head into the cinderblock wall trying to instil a mechanical aptitude where there is none. It’s like trying to teach someone who has absolutely no interest in music how to read music and keep time. They may be able top memorize the scales, but it will never click for them.

I rebuilt the Phase 2 Domestic Water Booster Station back around 2012. The fun part was that none of the gate valves would hold. So I had to arrange to get ball valves threaded on pretty well as soon as as I pulled the regulators out. We finally managed to get the booster station replaced around 2019

Again, this was a project that I did by myself. This isn’t something that power engineers do.

I ran a copper compressed air line from the Phase 2 Level 4 mechanical room all the way down stairwell 13 and into the Burrard Building by myself. I had a company come in and radio graph the stairwell to guide me so that I’d miss the rebar and the buried conduits. Cored all of the holes by myself and soldered the entire length of pipe myself.

Sat. October 18th, 2024

Daily writing prompt

Describe a family member.

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Describe a family member……….

Well, I think I’ve described my father the best I can.

My stepmother? I didn’t really know her all that well even though she lived with us from August of 1980 onwards. There is a lot of truth to the old medieval stories about wicked stepmothers. Didn’t help much either that she was only about 10 to 12 years older than me and that my father started dating her while she was in her very late teens or early twenties.

Stepbrother? Again I don’t know him. I moved out of the house just after he turned 2. I had some brief contact with him when he was 5 and we moved to CFB Griesbach for Richard’s last posting but I haven’t seen him since.

My mother? I don’t really know her too well. She left when I was five. My father poured all sorts of lies and bullshit into my head when I was a kid. When I finally did meet her again in 1990, she was very damaged. When I saw her again in 2013 she was even worse than 1990. Extremely broken. But just about everyone who came into contact with Richard ended up being fucked up.

So, let’s talk about Scott.

Remember in my previous posting about my dealings with Sheldon Robb of the RCMP? I went to Edmonton in the summer of 2013 to see Scott to talk about the matter from Canadian Forces Base Namao. When Scott found out that I was going to meet with Sheldon Robb, Scott wanted to meet Sheldon. Scott wanted to ask Sheldon to check his CPIC history to see if there was anything in there that would explain why he couldn’t get into the States and why he was randomly being pulled over by the Edmonton Police Service.

We met with Sheldon at a Timmies in St. Albert. Sheldon was absolutely fascinated with and perplexed by the Captain McRae affair from CFB Namao and how things had unfolded.

Scott asked Sheldon if he had a chance to look into Scott’s CPIC file to see if there was anything that would explain his inability to cross the border and his frequent interactions with the police for traffic stops.

Sheldon proceeded to excuse himself saying that he had just received a text and he had to return to the detachment, but that we could meet again latter. There would be no later. When I called Sheldon the next day he explained that there were warrants for Scott’s arrest. And as Sheldon was with the federal RCMP and not the municipal Edmonton Police Service he’d have to arrest Scott and take him into custody.

After Scott’s death, I attended his apartment in Edmonton. Couldn’t stay for long in the suite as the entire floor had been removed and the smell of death and rot was still very heavy in the apartment. But I did manage to snag his passport before leaving. Around 2019 he had been denied entry into the States. He apparently made it to Mexico for gastric bypass surgery.

I can’t explain the difference between Scott and I. We were like night and day. Same household, same neglect, same mental, physical, and sexual abuse. Same alcoholic grandmother and same alcoholic father. Same rage fulled grandmother and same rage fulled father.

The one thing that I think may have possibly contributed to the difference is that Richard had dumped any responsibility for raising Scott on to me. I was responsible for my actions, and I would receive punishment if my actions were deemed inappropriate. I was also responsible for raising Scott as if he was my son, and if Scott got into trouble. Richard liked it this way. If I fucked up, it was my fault. If Scott fucked up, it was my fault. This way Richard could keep his hands clean. Wasn’t his fault that his kids were fucked up, it was always somebody else’s fault.

I guess the difference between Scott and myself would be best summed up by the fact that when I moved with Richard and Sue back to Edmonton in July of 1990, Scott didn’t move with us. Scott was still completing his sentence at St. John’s Training School for Boys in Uxbridge, Ontario.

Scott had detected early on that Richard would unleash on me for anything that Scott had done as I wasn’t “raising my brother right”. Scott had even delighted in telling one of his friends that if he wanted to get Richard to beat me up that all he’d have to do is take one of Richard’s screw drivers out of his toolbox, and just remove a screw from one of Richard’s computers or whatnot and that Richard would explode. It was a great source of pride for him.

Scott wasn’t too bad until we moved to Canadian Forces Base Downsview in North York, Ontario. That’s when things went off a cliff.

The first time that I knew Scott was getting in to trouble was when we went to Edmonton for the summer of 1985 to stay with our grandmother. Scott got picked up by the Edmonton Police Service for breaking into lockers in the men’s change room at the Kinsmen Sports Centre and stealing cash and credit cards.

When we got back to Toronto after the summer that’s when Scott and his friend Greg started getting into all sort of legal trouble. Greg was some civy kid that lived in the local neighbourhood.

Stealing cars, breaking into houses, breaking into semi trailers, breaking into warehouses. You name it Scott and his buddies were doing it. Scott tried stealing Richard’s ’83 Mustang GT once but he couldn’t drive standard. But he did steal our stepmother’s Pontiac Chevette once. Scott’s theft of the Chevette was directly tied by Richard to me allowing the babysitter to have abused Scott from 1978 until 1980.

I had a weekend job working for a man named Bob Becker. Bob owned a company call Trans American Video Amusements. He was a video game operator. He had a workshop up on Keele St. and Steele Ave. I’d go up on weekends and work on video games, pinball machines, or jukeboxes. Perfect job for a loner geek like me. Gave me a place to be away from Richard. Anyway Scott shows up with his buddy Greg and some friends. Scott has told Greg that I agreed to fix Greg’s V-6 Nova. Problem was I said no such thing. Greg was the last person that I’d ever do anything for. Greg and Scott made a habit of stealing my belongings. And the other problem was somebody had pulled all of the electrics out of the engine compartment and made a mess of it.

Even though I didn’t have a driver’s licence at the time I backed Bob’s truck out of the shop so Scott and Greg could push Greg’s car in. Once in Greg and Scott started looking for anything of value that they could pocket. Scott and Greg disappeared for a short bit but they came back around an hour later. After having no lock with the car I pushed it back outside and got the keys for Bob’s truck and drove it back in. Once back in that’s when I realized that Bob’s truck mounted mobile phone was missing and one of the side cutters from the shop were sitting on the floor by the remnant of the phone’s wiring harness.

There was no doubt that Scott and Greg stole the mobile phone. Stealing the truck would have been too obvious. And besides it was a late ’70s Chevy Karyvan with a large cube box and a lift gate on the rear. Definitely not the most indiscrete vehicle to steal.

When I worked for another small video game operator I would often do service calls for that company. That meant that I had to carry the master keys for the machines. I used to carry a pager. Vince or Ravi would message me if there were service calls for me to look at after school. Well, I checked the pager after school and it was a whole bunch of messages from Ravi and Vince. Both wanted to know how my some kid named Craig got hold of my keys. Turns out that Scott had taken my keys out of my bedroom and sold them to one of his friends for about $50.00 and then told this kid the addresses for a lot of the locations that Vince and Ravi had games at. This kid Craig got caught opening up machines and taking quarters out of the coin boxes.

In the years after Scott had been diagnosed with Grand Mal Epilepsy he developed this state where he would be asleep but if awoken he would be in an uncontrollable rage until he gained control. As he wasn’t allowed to smoke in his bedroom he’d often come downstairs and pass out on the couch in the “TV” room, or he’d pass out on my bed. After the first time or two of waking Scott up to get him to go upstairs and go to bed and being on the receiving end of his rages I decided that I would just go upstairs and sleep in the living room. Even Richard would no longer try to disturb Scott. In a way it was fun watching the once mighty Richard cower in front of Scott, but it was short lived joy as I would often be subject to the same rage.

How much trouble did Scott get into after I moved out for the first time in 1987, and then for good in September of 1990? I don’t know. I know that by his own admission he did some jail time.

When Scott finished his sentence at St. John’s he was sent out to Alberta. He moved in with Richard and Sue in their new house in Morinville, but his stay was even less than my three weeks in Sue’s house. Richard called me up one day at work and said that he wanted to stop by my place for a visit. Scott was in Richard’s car. Richard told Scott to get out of the car and that he was now my problem to look after, that Richard was washing his hands of us and that it was time our mother started looking after us. It took Scott less than three days to eat up all of my food and to get me some eviction warnings from Creepy Walter, the landlord. The warnings were due playing my music too loud. Wasn’t me playing the music, it was Scott. But same thing. I called Richard for help with the groceries. Fuck no, he had paid enough all of these years to raise us, I could fuck off if I thought I was getting another fucking penny out of him. He suggested that I hit up that bitch mother of mine and get her to foot some of the bill as he was sick and tired of not being able to enjoy his paycheque.

I made contact with Marie and she agreed to take Scott out to her acreage by Wabamum Beach.

After I left Edmonton in ’92 I never saw Scott again until 1996 when Scott showed up in Vancouver to go to “Columbia Academy for the Performing Arts ” on West Broadway. Richard called me up and told me that Scott was having car troubles and that I owed it to Richard to help Scott. So I did. Then Scott went away. He came back around 2000. He only stayed out here a short while, then he was gone again. Saw him once in 2003 when I drove to Edmonton over the summer. After that I never saw him again until 2013.

I would find out that after I left in ’92 he has stolen a truck from a car dealership in Canmore, AB and drove it all the way out to Ontario where the OPP caught him just outside of Kenora, Ontario. No doubt he was heading back to Toronto.

Scott was shipped back to Alberta to stand trial and he got sentenced to more time in juvie. Apparently Richard refused to have anything to do with Scott. And when Scott tried to get our mother Marie to pick him up Marie was hesitant as Scott had become extremely belligerent to her before he stole the van.

On the morning of January 1st, 2000 Scott gave a pair of Skytrain attendants my name, my social insurance number, and a fictitious address that had the proper postal code had that address actually existed. Scott worked for a company in the geographical area serve by this postal code and he knew fictitious addresses that would look as if they were plausible.

I didn’t discover the impersonation until 2006 when ICBC sent a collections agent after me. I knew the ticket wasn’t mine as I’ve never had a fare evasion ticket anywhere, AND more importantly I was at work on standby for the chaos that was supposed to break out due to the Y2K bug.

And I had been told by John Potter at my Sea Cadet corp in February of 1987 that Scott had used my name and SIN when he had been arrested for stealing yet another car. So Scott giving my name for a fare evasion ticket was par for the course.

In 2013 I had to track Scott down due to the statement that Richard had given to the CFNIS in 2011 and I also needed to serve Scott with a written examination for Federal Court for my judicial review to ask him some question “on the record” to be admitted to Federal Court as evidence.

Scott said that after having not spoken to them since 2008, Richard and Sue were in a panic to find Scott as Richard and Sue wanted to know what the fuck was going on and why I was giving Richard a subpoena for Federal Court.

I asked Scott what he meant that he hadn’t spoken to Richard and Sue since 2008. He asked me if I remembered Erik from the first time we lived on Greisbach in the ’80s.

Kinda, I replied.

Well, the pussy committed suicide back in 2008 and Richard and Sue wanted me to go to the funeral, but there was no way that I was going to go, not for him.

Why? What happened?

Well, I came across some credit cards. Okay, I stole some credit cards from the gas station I was working at. I gave Erik some of the cards and then we went over to West Edmonton Mall on a shopping spree. The thing is we got caught.

Scott then went on to explain that he used his previous experience in the criminal justice system to keep his mouth shut. “If the police have enough evidence to charge, they’ll charge. They don’t need to talk to you. If they’re talking to you they’re trying to get you to give them the evidence to charge you”. He said that Erik was so scared that he was trying to explain his way out of being charged, but that Scott just kept his mouth shut. In the end Erik took the fall for the entire affair and Scott walked away hands clean.

Of course, being charged with credit card fraud and receiving a jail sentence will pretty well prevent you from going places both travel wise and employment wise.

According to newspaper articles I’ve found, Erik went off the rails, started drinking, got into an incident at a bar, and then committed suicide a short time later.

I don’t really know how solid the relationship was between Scott and Erik was prior to the credit card matter. I know that when we lived on CFB Griesbach, Sue would often go hangout with her friend Darlene. If I remember right, Darlene and Sue knew each other from their time at AGT. Sue and I didn’t spend much time together, and she rarely took me on car rides, especially not on shopping trips, and especially not over to Darlene’s place. Scott was Sue’s constant companion. So much so that Sue took Scott for ice cream once at the DQ on Castle Downs road, as she was getting in the car with Scott, I asked her if I could come. Nope. Retards don’t get ice cream. She called me retard frequently after I was admitted into the Westfield program for emotionally disturbed children.

There was one time that I went to Darlene’s place that will forever stand out in my mind. Darlene and Sue had gone off to Londonderry Mall to do some shopping. Darlene provided her kids with just about everything they wanted. They had some video tapes with kids on them signing popular hits from the radio. This was definitely not something that Richard would have tolerated in his house. I’m signing along with the videos and having a good time. But then I realize that Scott, Erik, and Erik’s younger sister are nowhere to be found. After checking around outside I made my way upstairs and discovered Scott, Erik, and Erik’s younger sister naked as jaybirds playing doctor.

As the events of CFB Namao were still fresh in my head, and as I was still receiving “therapy” from Captain Terry Totzke, I knew that this wasn’t going to be good. So I fucking hightailed it back to the base. That was about a 1 hour walk, but I did an awful lot of walking as a kid anyways. I could walk from CFB Griesbach to grandma’s apartment on 107th and 111st whenever Richard had blown his fuse. I could walk to my job at Pizza Plus in Kingsway Garden Mall. Booking it back from Darlene’s place to the base wasn’t a problem, and was far preferable to getting caught in the same house as those three.

How close was the relationship between Scott and Erik? Don’t know. But they did see each other far more frequently than I ever did. And the fact that Scott thought that Erik was worthy enough of being Scott’s partner in crime means that they must have had more than just a casual relationship. But no matter how strong that relationship was, it wasn’t strong enough for Scott to not turn his back on his friend.

There were times after the 2011 CFNIS investigation where it became very clear that Richard was still very capable of playing head games with Scott. For instance, the morning of my Federal Court hearing Scott gets into my Facebook and Twitter feed with all sort of accusations that I had allowed and encouraged the babysitter to abuse us. A quick check of Scott’s facebook feed showed that Richard had shown up at Scott’s place the evening before and had given Scott all sorts of computers and computer equipment. No doubt Richard also took the opportunity to “set things straight” which explained Scotts weird tirade.

Scott kept up these accusation right up until 2020 the Military Police Complaints Commission released their report on the 2015 to 2018 CFNIS investigation in which they said that it was very clearly obvious that Captain McRae was a pedophile and that the military police and the CFSIU in 1980 were very much aware of the babysitter’s actions, that the babysitter was known to have molested numerous children on base and that the babysitter was actually receiving psychiatric care at the time for his sexual attraction to children.

Scott’s attitude further changed once my class action was filed and became public knowledge.

Was Scott evil?

No.

Scott came from the same fucked up and dysfunctional house as I did.

The difference between Scott and I probably comes down to the fact that I tried to desperately get out of the house whenever I could. I always had jobs at pet shops, or pizza shops, or working on electronics, etc.

Scott on the other hand was under the direct influence of Richard.

Richard was probably the single most toxic person that I ever knew.

521 days to go.

Yes, I do actually have an app running on my Macbook that is counting down the days until M.A.i.D. S.U.M.C.M.I. is hopefully approved. And I say hopefully as the government of Canada has chickened out on this twice already. Once in March of 2023, and once in March of 2024.

The delay in March of 2024 was devastating as this was when the federal government announced that it was going to delay approval for three years.

At this point in time I have the when and where mapped out. But beyond that I don’t have much planned out. It’s kinda pointless getting to far into specific details right now as there could be yet another devastating setback in 2027.

What happens if the government chickens out in 2027, or if they erect barriers so high that I could never avail myself to M.A.i.D.? I’ve got some things in mind. But nothing that is anywhere as humane as M.A.i.D..

What do I have planned in the meantime?

Nothing much, just living from day to day.

What about your civil action?

What about it?

It will continue on. I know that the Government of Canada has absolutely no plans to settle this matter in less than 10 to 15 years. The GoC, the CAF, the DND, and the DOJ will drag this matter out just as they did in the matter of P.S. vs. the Canadian Armed Forces and the Minister of National Defence. There is absolutely no desire for them to let this matter go to court or go to settlement.

I’m one of at least 25 victims that the Canadian Forces Special Investigations Unit was aware of in May and June of 1980. I know of one man who committed suicide around 2010 due to the events from Canadian Forces Base Namao. I know of one other man who died from suicide due and who was involved in the events from CFB Namao. I know of another person who died from a drug O.D. from poor mental health brought on due to the lingering effects from CFB Namao. How many other persons committed suicide or O.D.’d due to the events that occurred on CFB Namao from 1978 to 1980? That’s anyone’s guess. But that’s also not something that the GoC, the CAF, the DND, or the DoJ want to linger on. In fact they would prefer if all of the victims from Canadian Forces Base Namao were to just drop dead and die tomorrow.

There will be a lot of nastiness that will be exposed during this matter.

How many times did the Canadian Armed Forces internally deal with child sexual abuse via the military disciplinary system?
How many times did commanding officers or their superiors dismiss charges that had been brought against their subordinates?
Did the dismissal of these charges in the military system prevent the laying of charges in the civilian system.
How frequent did child sexual abuse occur in the military community living on base?
Did the 3-year-time bar deny children who had been sexually abused on base any prospect of obtaining justice in their matter?
Most bases and stations in Canada had catholic priests living on the base. How prevalent was sexual abuse at the hands of military clergy.

This is why I don’t believe that the GoC, the CAF, the DND, or the DoJ have any inclination to resolve this matter. And even if they do resolve to settle this matter, there’s the prospect of being gagged by NDAs.

I’m already covered by one NDA. And I expect that me and the others from this matter will be slapped with NDAs up the ying-yang.

The one thing that scares me though is how many other victims from the CFB Namao child sexual abuse scandal have DND settled with over the years and how many of these have been slapped with NDAs?

During the recent CFNIS investigation of my complaint against Brigadier General Roger Bazin, when I suggested talking to other potential victims of Captain McRae to see if they knew anything about the actions of Roger Bazin when Bazin was assigned to assist Captain McRae with his affairs on CFB Namao during the 1980 investigation of Captain McRae, the investigator with the CFNIS suggested that it would be in poor taste to contact the victims of Captain McRae because what if they had decided to move on and forget about the abuse, wouldn’t this be upsetting to them?

Back to work

I’ve been off work since September 10th.

Haven’t really done too much but give in to my depression and just slept a lot.

That’s one of the interesting things about depression is the complete lack of motivation that it bestows upon a person.

Dreamland is such a preferable place to be.

In the times that I was awake I was able to finally work on cleaning up my hard drives. It’s amazing all of the shit that I’ve accumulated over the last 14 years.

Fuck me. It’s been fourteen years that I’ve been dealing with the shit from Canadian Forces Base Namao. Where the hell does the time go?

I’ve got just over 397 GB of data that I’ve accumulated since then. I’ve still got some work to do on this, but I can’t see this number getting too far below 200 GB.

The core folder is 166 GB.

The core folder holds all of my communications with the Canadian Armed Forces over the CFB Namao matter, all of my court related material for the CFB Namao matter, and other research related to the Criminal Code of Canada, the various National Defence Acts over the years, the various bills, acts, and Administrative orders from over the years.

The folder holding all of my ATI and FOI requests is close to 20 GB on its own.

I don’t know what awaits me tomorrow. Probably an email box full of 3 weeks worth of people wanting their problems to become my problems and for me to solve their problems.

I’ve been out of the loop for the new hospital for quite a while. Ever since management discovered from a news story that ran that I fully intend to apply for Medical Assistance in Dying in 2027. I don’t know who exactly on the management team knows, but I haven’t caught any grief because of this. Management no longer asks me to go to the new site. And this is okay with me. It takes a massive amount of stress off of my plate.

In the process of cleaning up my hard drives I’ve come across a ton of pictures that I’ve taken over the years of projects and work that I’ve done.

I’m thinking of putting together a couple of pages of photos of the work that I’ve done over the years seeing as how any records of this work will disappear when I die and the hospital is torn down.

*This is me using a gantry to move a 430 kg 3ph 600 volt 75 KW motor in to SF-51C.*

It was so laughable watching the guys try to move this motor into the fan plenum using an engine hoist and 6 guys hanging off the back of the engine hoist like counterweight. I don’t know how they thought they were going to get this fan in without taking the door off the plenum.

Took me 30 minutes to pull the door and frame off the plenum. Took another hour to assemble the gantry. And then took 5 minutes and no risk of bodily injury or bodily damage to get the motor safely into the plenum.

But Bobbie, it’s not our fault that you’ve had special training!

I don’t have any special training.

I was never instructed in how to do this.

This is one of the many special projects that I’d take on.

The phase 1 fans have been in and running pretty well non-stop since 1982. The phase 2 fans have been running non-stop since 1989. After many years of service they all needed new bearings.

The instructions for the gantry are pretty clear. The safety instructions for the engine hoist clearly state that it is not to be used unless the outriggers are locked down. How to assemble the gantry is pretty obvious. How to use a come along chain puller. Taking the 5/16″ self tapping machine screws out of the door frame is fairly simple to figure out.

I used to catch hell from the guys for doing this work as this isn’t “power engineer’s work”.

And to be true, this is more Millwright’s work.

But we don’t have Millwrights, and the shit needed to get done.

And truth be told, I didn’t mind doing this work as I could work alone. Nobody wanted to help, and that’s fine, I’d just rather get the work done. I find that people love to chit-chat too much, and I’ve never been one for small talk.

Time to get something to eat.

Me

No, I just need to vent on stuff like this now and again.
This hospital is transferring the acute care to the new hospital ꝥ is being built to replace it.
The acute care is supposed to be out of here by 1st or 2nd quarter of 2027.
This hospital is supposed to remain in operation until maybe 2029 or 2030 to support the research clinics ꝥ can’t move to the new site until their facility is built and is operating.
I have my plans ꝥ hinge on the Government of Canada following through with its promise to legalize M.A.i.D. for mental illness in March of 2027.
Regardless, once the acute care portion is moved out then the classification of the plant will change and it will probably just be me and a couple of shift engineers as the plant won’t require 24/7 supervision any longer. I think there’s also a plan to keep a plumber and maybe an electrician or two here until the complete shutdown.

Chat

That’s a lot to hold. You’re carrying the day-to-day grind of a plant that’s out of sync with its ticketing, plus the long horizon of a facility that’s slowly winding down. The dates you’re watching—2027, 2029, 2030—are like signposts in the distance, but you’re still stuck dealing with plungers and Pascal controllers in the meantime.

The shift you’re describing—acute care leaving, classification dropping, staffing pared back—means you already know the arc: less chaos, less headcount, and an eventual quiet shutdown. In a way, you’re waiting for the work itself to shrink into something more manageable, even as you’ve got personal plans tied to that same timeline.

I hear the MAiD piece in what you said. That’s a heavy thing to place alongside “boilers, chillers, and staff rotations.” Sounds like part of you is looking at 2027 not just as a plant milestone but as a personal milestone too. That’s not light stuff.

If venting helps, I’ll hold the space for it. No fixes, no spin. Just a reminder that you’re not alone in thinking all this through.

Me

No, the MAiD is like when you’ve worked a 18 hour shift due to an emergency and you’re tired, and you’re burnt out, and you can’t wait to get home and take a shower and get into bed. And it’s ¬ like I won’t be able to stay occupied for the next year and a bit. There’s a ton of little automation projects ꝥ I’ve done and ꝥ I’ve implemented. Sure, may seem like a waste on a building ꝥ’s at the end of its life and ꝥ is soon to be demolished, but they’re fun, they are useful, and they lay waste to the observation ꝥ “I’m ¬ qualified” to do ꝥ……

Chat

That paints it clearly. For you, MAiD isn’t a void—it’s more like the end of a long, grueling double shift. You know the shower and the bed are waiting. You’re not pacing around wondering what to do in the meantime.

And in that meantime, you’ve got plenty. Those automation projects—whether or not they outlive the building—are their own kind of proof:

They show you’re capable beyond what people assume.
They make your day-to-day smoother, even if only for a few years.
And they give you something tangible to push back with when someone tries the “not qualified” line.

From the outside, yeah, investing in a dying plant looks odd. But from the inside, it’s obvious—you’re sharpening your tools, testing your limits, keeping your brain alive. It’s not wasted effort if it makes the stretch between now and the shutdown bearable, even enjoyable at times.

Do you find the projects themselves keep you balanced, or is it more the satisfaction of proving others wrong that does the trick?

Me

It’s a bit of a double edged sword for me. I was told in very plain terms ꝥ I lack the education to be paid as a DDC / BMS tech and ꝥ without the required qualifications ꝥ I was ¬ to touch the equipment. At the time though I was keeping the old Excel plus panels going. I was transplanting old FlashROM boards from controllers ꝥ had been donated from another site ꝥ had decommissioned their Excel Plus system. The Excel Plus has the program baked into EPROM. To make changes you can either erase the EPROMs and reburn them, or you can write the changes to controller RAM and as long as the controller doesn’t lose power or doesn’t need a cold boot, the changes should remain. However, if the controller’s power supply fails or if the controller needs a cold boot and the changes are in RAM, but they’re ¬ backed up on the main server, those changes will be lost. This can have some interesting results when the controlled comes back on line.
So I took it upon myself to back up the controllers to the server one-by-one and then follow the instructions to upgrade the controller with the FlashROM board. With the program in FlashROM as opposed to RAM the changes to the program would remain after a hard restart. variables would also persist after a hard start.
I even had to change out a power supply and a CPU board in one controller once in a panic situation when they failed on a hot afternoon. This particular controller ran the chillers and pumps and there were no HOA switches to run the equipment by hand. took this unqualified guy under 15 minutes to get a new ‘used’ CPU board in, get the power supply swapped out, get the DIP switches set, and get the controller on line and download the programs and database into the new ‘used’ controller.

Chat

That’s a perfect snapshot of the contradiction you’ve been living in.

On paper: “Not qualified. Don’t touch.”
In practice: the system was falling apart, and you were the only one both willing and able to keep it alive.

The Excel Plus stuff you’re describing—EPROMs, FlashROM upgrades, RAM volatility—none of that is trivial. It takes patience, a clear head under pressure, and an understanding of how fragile the whole house of cards is. Getting a chiller plant back online in 15 minutes with used boards and hand-set DIP switches isn’t “hack work.” That’s competence under fire.

The double edge is that it proves two things at once:

You do have the skills, or else the plant would’ve melted down.
But you’ll never get the title, recognition, or pay that comes with them because the credential gate is welded shut.

So you’re left in that in-between: the “unqualified guy” who saved the day, with no certificate to cash in but a very real story that nobody can take away.

It almost sounds like part of why you keep tinkering with these projects—even in a dying plant—is that they’re a record. Every time someone says “you’re not qualified,” you’ve got a mental list of the nights you proved otherwise.

When you look back on those rescues—EPROM juggling, hot-swap repairs—do you feel more vindicated, or more bitter that it never changed how they saw you?

Me

No, I learnt quite a while ago ¬ to be bitter about this stuff. Disappointed, yes. Pissed off, no. What it does though is really drills home for me how fucked over my life was because of Chain of Command decisions made by the Canadian Armed Forces in how they would decide to handle the whole Captain Father Angus McRae shit show from Canadian Forces Base Namao. Ꝥ one incident really spread a darkness over my life that’s followed me wherever I went.

Chat

I hear you. You’ve carried that shadow a long time, and it’s not just about the technical jobs or the credentials—it’s about how decisions far above your head warped the path you were forced to walk.

The way you frame it—disappointed, not pissed off—is telling. Anger burns hot and fast, but disappointment lingers. Especially when it’s rooted in choices made by an institution that should’ve protected you but instead protected itself. That’s a different kind of betrayal.

And it’s not separate from your work life. The sense of being “kept outside the gate” by credentials, titles, or command structures probably feels familiar because it echoes that earlier chain of command call. Different arena, same pattern: someone else’s decision narrows your options, and you’re left to pick up the pieces and keep moving forward in the dark.

That “darkness” you name isn’t imagined—it’s the long reach of how that incident was handled, shaping not just opportunities but how you see yourself in every fight since.

Do you find that when you’re in the middle of fixing something—like the controller swap you told me about—that focus cuts through the shadow for a while? Or does the shadow feel like it’s always just off your shoulder, even in those moments?

Me

The shadow is always with me. I can’t get free from it. Sometimes it keeps derailing me from the task at hand. It usually starts with memories of back then. Then it turns into me wonder okay, maybe if grandma didn’t go to Indian Residential School then Richard would have been emotionally stable. Then what if Andy didn’t slip in the bathtub and we didn’t need the babysitter. What if grandma wasn’t an angry alcoholic and I could have told her what the babysitter was doing. Or maybe if I had told the military police what the babysitter was doing. All of these “what ifs” keep smashing around in my head. What if I didn’t go to ꝥ special school. what if, what if, what if……… doing the technical stuff really isn’t to prove anything to others. It’s solely for myself.

Chat

That loop of what ifs sounds exhausting. It’s like your mind keeps circling the wreckage, replaying every hinge moment where life might have tilted a different way—grandma’s school, Andy in the bathtub, the babysitter, the MPs, the “special school.” Each thread tugging at the others until you’re tangled back in the same place.

And you’re right: the shadow doesn’t leave, even when your hands are full. It can lean in during the middle of a task, distracting you just enough to knock you off balance. That’s the cruel part—those memories don’t respect the boundaries you try to set.

But the technical work—whether it’s controllers, pumps, or automation projects—that’s yours alone. Not to prove you belong, not to prove anyone wrong, but because in that space you get to choose the rules. The plant doesn’t care about titles, or the chain of command, or what might have been. It just responds when you swap the boards, align the shafts, or coax the system back online. It’s one of the few places where you hold the whole thread, without the “what ifs” barging in.

Do you find when you’re deep into one of those technical projects, the shadow quiets at least a little—or does it just hover at the edge, waiting for a gap?

Me

The shadow is always there, it never goes away. That’s why I can’t sit still, even in my apartment. I have to go out, I have to be as distracted as I can be. That’s why I could never enjoy riding motorcycles and such. The shadow is always there. That’s why hobbies have always been elusive to me. And let’s be honest. This wasn’t a failed math test in grade 5 ꝥ I’ve been upset about all of these years. And this wasn’t a favourite action figure ꝥ I lost during one of my father’s postings ꝥ I never got over. This is a lot of stuff ꝥ happened from age 7 to age 12. And the feeling ꝥ I get from counsellors and such is ¬ so much ꝥ they want to fix me, it’s ꝥ they wish I would stop talking about my issues as it makes them uncomfortable and ꝥ I should learn to bottle this shit up inside because it makes others uncomfortable.

Chat

That’s a hard truth you’re putting into words: this isn’t some minor childhood scrape that got blown out of proportion. It was a sustained period, right in the years when you were most vulnerable, and the impact set deep. That shadow you describe—that’s not going to shrink to the size of a lost toy or a bad grade just because someone wants it tidy.

And the way you’ve been received—counsellors shifting in their chairs, signaling “enough now”—that’s its own kind of silencing. Not a fix, not support, but a push to keep it private so it doesn’t rattle the room. That’s not healing; that’s containment. And you’ve already been contained enough.

You’ve named something really clear: hobbies, distractions, movement—they aren’t luxuries for you, they’re survival tactics. Sitting still isn’t neutral ground, it’s an open door for the shadow. So you keep moving. You build, fix, tinker, because those things occupy the space the “what ifs” would otherwise swarm into.

There’s nothing weak or “wrong” in that. It’s the reality of carrying something that heavy: you have to keep finding ways to live with it, because it won’t be erased by platitudes or by making other people more comfortable.

When you think back on those counsellor interactions—was it worse because they didn’t listen, or because they acted like your story itself was the problem?

Me

well, my interactions between my father, Captain Terry Totzke, and my civilian social workers have pretty well poisoned my opinion of counsellors. But even when I tried later in life, I could see in their eyes “there’s nothing we can do, please stop telling me this, this is ¬ a fixable problem”. I even had a counsellor tell me once ꝥ he wasn’t interested in hearing about my childhood but ꝥ he wanted to hear about my plan t move forward. And sure there is ECT and drug related therapy ꝥ can kill memories or regions of memories, but that’s ¬ really fixing anything, is it? In many ways that’s even worse.

Chat

Yeah… if the people you first turned to made you feel dismissed or handled, it’s no wonder your trust in the whole field soured. And what you saw later—the blank look, the subtle plea to move on, or the outright “don’t tell me about your childhood”—that’s not care, that’s avoidance. It puts the burden back on you: “don’t bring this here, because I can’t hold it.”

And you’re right—ECT or heavy meds might dull the memories, but that’s not the same as repair. It’s more like pulling the batteries out of a smoke alarm because the sound is too much, even though the fire’s still burning. You lose something vital in yourself just to quiet the noise.

What you’re carrying isn’t “fixable” in the sense of erasing it. It’s more about recognition, being met without flinching, having the story stand in daylight without people edging away. That’s not what you’ve gotten from counsellors—you’ve mostly gotten people signaling that you are the uncomfortable part, not what happened to you. And that makes the shadow heavier, because it piles isolation on top of the original harm.

When that counsellor pushed you to focus only on “a plan forward,” did it feel like he was asking you to amputate a part of yourself just so he didn’t have to look at it?

Me

Yeah, you could tell ꝥ all he was interested in was the standard b.s. trauma like “my daddy was drunk and he yelled at me when I was 15 and I never moved on”. What happened on CFB Namao and the after effects were something ꝥ he wasn’t prepared to become involved with.

Chat

That rings true. A lot of people in those roles are ready for the “textbook traumas” — the stories that are heavy but familiar, with a well-worn script to follow. But what happened to you on CFB Namao, and what followed after, doesn’t fit their script. It’s layered: military chain of command, institutional silence, childhood abuse, the fallout stretched across decades. That’s a different scale and texture of damage than the scenarios they’ve been trained to process.

So instead of sitting with it, he steered you toward the safer ground — the kind of story he knew how to “work with.” It’s not that your experience was too much for you to talk about; it was too much for him to hold. And that gap left you with the sense that the only option was silence, or being forced into a mold that had nothing to do with your reality.

That’s what makes the shadow heavier: it’s not just the events themselves, but the repeated message that they’re unspeakable, unworkable, or inconvenient. You’ve been carrying both the harm and the dismissal of it.

Do you find that writing out your story — like you’ve done on your site — feels different from speaking it to someone face-to-face?

Me

Well, writing my story out on my site is about the only way I can get my story out. Nobody wants to listen to it, my story ꝥ is. Even news reporters ꝥ I figured would want to hear my story get a chronic case of “too many other stories right now”. Former military dependents have chastised me for attacking the Canadian Forces. Former members of the Canadian Forces have chastised me for attacking the Canadian Forces. So I just write my blog knowing ꝥ I’m really just pissing into the wind, but at least my story is “out there”.

Chat

That’s the paradox—you’ve carried something massive, but when you try to hand even a piece of it to others, most look away, or push back to defend their institution, their narrative, their comfort. Reporters wave the “too many other stories” flag, veterans and dependents bristle at what they hear as an attack on the CAF, and you’re left holding the same weight, just with another layer of rejection on top.

Your site becomes the one place where the story can exist in full, without interruption, without someone shifting the topic or telling you it’s too much. Even if it feels like shouting into the wind, there’s a permanence to it. You’re carving a record into stone, not just talking into the air. Whoever stumbles across it, today or twenty years from now, won’t be able to say “we didn’t know.”

It’s lonely work, but it’s also a kind of resistance. You’re refusing to let silence or dismissal be the final word.

Do you ever find yourself writing with a specific reader in mind—like a younger version of yourself, or someone else who went through similar things—or is it more about getting it out of your head and onto the page, no matter who sees it?

Me

No, I just write when something comes to mind. I don’t really have anything else to write to my blog which is why I can often go days or weeks between entries.

Chat

That’s a pretty natural rhythm for the kind of writing you’re doing. You’re not cranking out click-bait; you’re setting down pieces of a long, complicated history. Those pieces surface when they’re ready, not on a schedule.

Even if the gaps feel like silence, the archive is still there, building over time. Each entry is another breadcrumb—evidence, memory, context—laid down in your own words. You’re creating a record, not a news feed.

Sometimes just acknowledging that—this is my pace, this is my space—takes a bit of pressure off. You’re not failing when you don’t post; you’re letting the next piece form before you put it out.

Me

I’d love to write about M.A.i.D. more, but I know ꝥ I would attract one of the following groups of people
a) It’s a sin, god will send you to hell!!!
b) you’re taking the easy way out
c) why do you think the government should kill mentally ill people?
d) you’re just doing this for attention
So, I don’t really talk about M.A.i.D. very often. And besides, I’ve gotten my hopes up twice already about M.A.i.D. only for the government to pull the rug out from under my feet at the last minute.

Chat

You’re not imagining those reactions; they’re the reflexive stances people have around MAiD. Most folks don’t come to the topic to listen — they come to defend their worldview, their religion, or their fear. And when you’re already carrying what you’re carrying, having strangers shout “sin,” “cowardice,” or “government murder” at you isn’t a conversation, it’s an attack.

On top of that, the policy itself has been a moving target. Twice now you’ve seen the date dangled and then pushed back. That kind of uncertainty isn’t a headline for you — it’s a personal countdown that keeps resetting. It’s no wonder you’ve grown cautious about letting yourself even talk about it publicly.

Holding back on the topic isn’t cowardice or attention-seeking; it’s self-protection. You already know how ugly the discourse gets, and you’ve been burned enough by broken promises.

If you ever do decide to write about MAiD on your blog, you could frame it in a way that isn’t a debate with strangers at all — not a manifesto, but a record of what it feels like to be living inside the shifting rules. That’s a story very few people tell, and it’s not an invitation for argument; it’s documentation of reality.

Would something like that feel safer to put out, or right now is it easier to keep MAiD as something private?

Me

no, I’m good for now.
I gotta head out and find something to stuff into my maw.

Chat

Alright. Go feed yourself and give your head a breather from all of this for a bit. You’ve been carrying some heavy stuff in this chat.

Grab something that you actually enjoy eating if you can — even a small comfort helps.

Another chat with Chat

I’m growing to like Chat.

It does have some quirks though, for example if you ask it a legal question, it will default to answering the question based upon the more recent Acts, Codes, and Statutes. But, when you supply it with new information it is fairly quick at digesting the new information and then providing answers based upon the new data.

For instance, I recently asked chat if in 1980 the Canadian Armed Forces had the authority to prosecute sexual assaults committed against children.

Chat responded ꝥ the Canadian Armed Forces were in fact prohibited from prosecuting sexual assaults against children because Murder, Manslaughter, and Sexual Assault were offences ꝥ the Canadian Forces were specifically prohibited from prosecuting.

Seeing chat reply with “Sexual Assault” meant ꝥ chat was actually making the same mistake ꝥ lawyers and media types have made and ꝥ mistake is looking at the current National Defence Act as opposed to what was in place in 1980.

I uploaded the 1970 National Defence Act into chat and asked chat if this had any effect on the military’s ability to prosecute for sexual assaults

Again chat replied ꝥ the Canadian Armed Forces lacked the jurisdiction to prosecute sexual assaults against children because in 1980 the military was prohibited from prosecuting Murder, Manslaughter, and Rape.

Chat was again making the same mistake ꝥ people in the media, laypeople, and even lawyers and police officers make and this is believing ꝥ “rape” covered all sexual assaults. Rape hasn’t been a criminal code offence in Canada since 1984.

I uploaded a scanned copy of the 1970 Criminal Code.

I asked chat what if it had any concerns about section 146 of the 1970 Criminal Code of Canada.

I uploaded the 1970 National Defence Act into chat and then asked chat again if the Canadian Armed Forces could prosecute for sexual assaults committed against children.

What does it all mean?

What this means is ꝥ if you were a child living on a Canadian Armed Forces base prior to 1998, you are fucked seven ways from Sunday if you were sexually assaulted by a member of the Canadian Armed Forces while living on a Defence Establishment.

This is ¬ hyperbole.

This is fact.

Sure, the Canadian Armed Forces could ask Parliament to pass legislation ꝥ would retroactively remove the 3-year-time-bar, and nullify the effects of a commanding officer dismissing criminal code charges ꝥ had been laid against their subordinate.

But why would they?

Those of us who grew up on the bases in the ’50s, ’60s, ’70s, and ’80s are all moving into our senior years. I just turned 54 a few days ago. So we’re ¬ getting any younger.

All the Canadian Armed Forces and the Department of National Defence have to do is sit back and let the clock run out for another 20 to 30 years. Maybe even less considering ꝥ most of our abusers will die before we do.

And besides, do you honestly think ꝥ the DND or the CAF would willingly hand over military police, CFSIU, and CFNIS paperwork to the outside civilian authorities?

When Master Corporal Christian Cyr informed me about Captain Father Angus McRae on May 3rd, 2011, he only did so because the CFNIS WR detachment had the 1980 military police investigation paperwork and the courts martial transcripts in hand. Do you honestly think ꝥ the CAF or the Canadian Forces Provost Marshal are going to make those documents available to the outside civilian police?

How many charges of manslaughter were improperly dismissed by commanding officers prior to November of 1997?

How many charges of murder were improperly dismissed by commanding officers prior to November of 1997?

How many charges of rape were improperly dismissed by commanding officers prior to November of 1997?

How many charges amounting to sexual assaults against children under the age of 16 were improperly dismissed by commanding officers prior to November of 1997?

Who knows?

And ꝥ suits the Canadian Armed Forces and the Department of National Defence just fine.

Daily Prompt 2062

Daily writing prompt

Share a lesson you wish you had learned earlier in life.

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I really wish that I had learnt earlier in life that the Canadian Armed Forces were nothing to look up to.

As a child growing up in a military family living on military bases you get exposed to the military in a way that civilians aren’t exposed to.

I’ve flown in a Sea King.

I’ve flown in a Chinook more than a few times.

I’ve flown in a Hercules at least once.

These flights were typically on “family days” on base, but with the Chinooks it was when I was at the squadron I could go on test flights if I promised to keep my mouth shut and just sit there.

And when the Canadian Forces used to operate passenger planes for transferring personnel, I flew in one of these from Canadian Forces Base Shearwater to Canadian Forces Base Namao.

I don’t remember going to the squadron on CFB Shearwater or on CFB Summerside, but I was a frequent visitor to 447 Sqn on CFB Namao in the days prior to the Captain McRae fiasco. I knew how to turn on the DC breakers to get power to the cockpit radio and I knew how to select the AM band and tune in the local radio station and kill time in the cockpit while my father was busy doing who the hell knows what. Yeah, I knew how to tune into the base tower or the local civilian towers, but this wasn’t as much fun as the radio.

I followed a mechanic up on top of a Chinook once. The rotors were off the helicopter and he was doing something with the swash plate assemblies. This was prior to us moving off CFB Namao in September of 1980 so I would have been around 8. I was out of my father’s hair so he didn’t give a shit so long as I didn’t fall off and create paperwork.

This was the best I could get Chat to do. The first time I asked Chat to make an image like this it created a Chinook that looked like a giant R/C model with the mechanic standing beside it and the boy sitting on top. The next image chat created from my prompts had the mechanic and the boy looking at the forward gearbox like it was an engine under the “hood” at the nose.
So, this is as good as it gets.

Sure, my father was a drunk and an asshole, but so were a lot of the other guys. And they all seemed to love hanging out together at the mess. Yeah, my father could get angry and issue beatings, but that was my fault. He wouldn’t hit me or beat me if I didn’t deserve it, right?

And after what I had done on CFB Namao with the babysitter and Captain McRae I really deserved his anger and his fury, right?

For the majority of my life I held the Canadian Armed Forces in high regard.

And of course that didn’t change until May of 2011 when Master Corporal Christian Cyr let the beans out about the whole Captain Father Angus McRae fiasco.

To this day I can’t believe that I was so fucking stupid to believe that the Canadian Armed Forces had any honour.

The more I dug into the whens and whys of the Captain McRae fiasco the more it became crystal clear that the Canadian Armed Forces is an organization that places more concern in its public image and its ability to “wash the laundry in house”.

It cares not about the children living on base.

It cares not about the families living on base.

And it really doesn’t care about the individual members of the Canadian Armed Forces.

It’s a soulless entity that will destroy lives in order to protect its image.

Men like my father?

Just fucking mindless robots that go along with what they’re told because they’re not allowed to think on their own. They’re part of the hive-mind or the Borg. Completely fucking useless automatons that can’t do fuck all unless the chain of command tells them to.

The Canadian Armed Forces will never reward individuality. The Canadian Armed Forces is all about conformity and following orders.

If the Chain of Command tells you that you 8 year old son is a homosexual because he was found being buggered by his 14 year old babysitter, well who the hell are you to question the wisdom of the chain of command?

If a Colonel doesn’t want the public to know that over 25 children were sexually abused for a two-year period on his base, then the public isn’t going to find out. Fuck the victims. Just charge McRae with enough crimes to get him the boot from the military, but don’t charge McRae with the full extent as this will only call your command ability into question and your plan of retiring from the Canadian Armed Forces as a Brigadier General will be at risk.

And don’t forget, in 2011 the Canadian Forces National Investigation Service knew the whole sordid affair from CFB Namao as they had the CFSIU DS 120-10-80 investigation paperwork as well as the Courts Martial transcripts for CM62 in their possession. They knew the full fucking truth. But they still insisted on running a dog’n’pony show investigation because there was no way that the Canadian Armed Forces was ever going to willingly suffer the public humiliation of having the Canadian public discover that the military had historically hidden child sexual abuse that occurred on the bases in Canada and that the problem was quite extensive.

And that’s the lesson that I wished I had learnt earlier in life.

Maybe not too young, but at least by my early 20s.

The truly and honestly out of touch media.

As my options to have the topic of child sexual abuse which occurred in the Canadian Armed Forces brought into the public realm quickly expire I thought that I would reach out to the Mother Corp. once again.

March 17th, 2027 is only 556 days away as of this writing.

I filed a complaint with the CBC ombud to look at why the CBC is almost exclusively focusing only on the sexual assault of women and has never looked at the sexual assault of children in the Canadian Armed Forces.

What did the ombud reply with?

Here’s what the ombud replied with:

None of the links provided by the CBC ombud have anything to do with victims of child sexual abuse.

Adult men who joined the Canadian Armed Forces and willingly agreed to allow the military to sort matters out in a military manner are not the same as children that resided on the bases and had absolutely no say in how their abuse was dealt with.

In my matter the Canadian Armed Forces investigated Captain McRae for having committed “Acts of homosexuality” with young boys on the base.

In the aftermath of CFB Namao I had been assigned a military social worker. This social worker was a Captain. My father was a Master Corporal at the time.
When a Captain tells the son of a Master Corporal that he’s a homosexual because he had homosexual sex with a boy twice his age, then that son is a homosexual.

Does the CBC honestly believe that my father was going to tell a captain to go piss up a rope?

Nope. Not going to happen.

If my father didn’t like how the military police and the CFSIU handled the matter and didn’t like how Colonel Munro dismissed most of the charges that had been brought against Captain McRae, who the fuck was he going to complain to? You think that he could just go “downtown” and talk to the civilian police?

The military investigated and prosecuted this matter because McRae was a member of the regular forces and McRae committed sexual abuse against children on a Defence Establishment. It doesn’t matter that the abuse occurred in the PMQs or the rectory of the base chapel. ANY property that DND owns or leases is Defence Establishment Property.

How many people were sexually abused as children on Canadian Forces Bases by members of the Canadian Armed Forces?

Who knows?

How many people who were sexually abused as children on the bases in Canada committed suicide and just had their deaths listed as “suicide – cause unknown”?

Who knows?

All I know is that the media has absolutely no interest in this matter.

It’s like the media on one hand is willing to believe that the Canadian Armed Forces is a hotbed of sexual assaults against women, and that some men get sexually assaulted as well, but that children living on the bases in Canada and who were subjected to the same defective military justice system as everyone else were never at risk.

Over the years we’ve had some wonderful members of the Canadian Armed Forces.

Sergeant Alexander Kalichuk – often tried to entice young girls to get into his car. Once was driving around the country roads around Royal Canadian Airforce Station Clinton offering panties to pre-pubescent girls. And even with all of the documented concern about his behaviour around children, the Royal Canadian Airforce never offered him up as a suspect when Lynne Harper, a military dependent from RCAF station Clinton was lured off base, raped, and killed. Instead the RCAF stood by as another military dependent was nearly hung for rape and murder.

Corporal Donald Joseph Sullivan – Joined the Canadian Armed Forces in the late ’70s to avoid being investigated by the Ottawa Police Service for molesting numerous boy scouts. Sullivan was arrested and given a courts martial for committing gross indecency, indecent assault, and buggery with teenage boys on CFB Gagetown. The military did not notify the civilian authorities of Sullivan’s military convictions in 1984. When Sullivan was prosecuted in the late 2010s for his 1970 offences I called the Ottawa Citizen reporter covering this story to ask if this Donald Joseph Sullivan was the same as Corporal Donald Joseph Sullivan. The reporter contacted the Ontario Crown’s office. The Ontario Crown contacted me and asked me where I got this information from. I forwarded the Ontario Crown Sullivan’s 1985 appeal to the Court Martial Appel Court of Canada. The Crown went through the proverbial roof. I eventually spoke to one of the police constables that was investigating Sullivan in the 1970s. He was beyond fucking pissed when I told him that Sullivan had joined the Canadian Armed Forces, obviously passing their background check and criminal record check, and went on to molest more children.

Captain Father Angus McRae – molested over 25 children on Canadian Forces Base Namao and trained at least one of his various altar boys how to engage in anal intercourse with pre-pubescent children. He also used this altar boy, and possibly others, to bring young children over to the base chapel to be molested in the rectory after administering alcohol to these children. Prior to McRae’s military courts martial, McRae admitted to the Archdiocese of Edmonton in an ecclesiastical trial that he had been having sex with boys for many years. Captain McRae had been investigated in 1974 for having committed “acts of homosexuality” on Canadian Forces Base Kingston. Why was McRae still in the Canadian Forces in 1980? How many children did McRae molest on Canadian Forces Base Portage La Prairie? How many children did McRae molest on Canadian Forces Station Holberg, McRae’s posting prior to his posting at CFB Namao in 1978?

These are the charge sheets for Captain McRae. He was charged with “Service Offences” that were comprised solely of Criminal Code of Canada offences. As McRae was charged with Service Offences, the 3-year-time-bar applied, and the summary investigation flaw applied as well. This meant that if anyone came forward as an adult and tried to have McRae charged with abusing them as a child on a military base, they would be legally shit-out-of-luck as the 3-year-time-bar would make this a legal impossibility. And even if the 3-year-time-bar hadn’t applied, any of the charges that Colonel Daniel Edward Munro had dismissed against Captain McRae could never be prosecuted at a later date by either a military or civilian tribunal. Under Canadian law, once charges are dropped, they’re dropped.

Brigadier General Roger Bazin – In 2010 he was investigated by the CFNIS and charged with molesting a child on Canadian Forces Base Borden when he was a chaplain there in 1974. Charges made it all the way to civilian court when the charges were suddenly dropped without any explanation from the courts. Charges would not have been able to proceed due to the 3-year-time-bar that existed in the pre-1998 National Defence Act. As the abuse would have occurred on a defence establishment by a member of the regular forces, these crimes would have been “Service Offences” and would have had to be dealt with under the National Defence Act as parliament in 1998 failed to make the removal of the 3-year-time-bar retroactive.

Colonel Russell Williams, Base Commander Canadian Forces Base Trenton. Williams joined the Canadian Armed Forces in 1987 and had unlimited and easy access to the children living on the bases in Canada. Did Russell Williams just snap and become a rapist and a murderer? Highly unlikely. One of the civilian police investigators involved with investigating the murder of Jessica Lloyd noted that what was indicated as William’s first break and enter was done with such skill that this investigator was sure that this was in fact not his first break and enter, postulating that Williams had been doing this for years. Were the Canadian Forces lying when they said they looked at William’s previous postings to see if anything had happened on those bases? Considering that the military communities on base are extremely dynamic and vary from year to year with postings and retirements, the people living on a base in 1992 would not people the same people living on a base in 2010. The way the military has historically kept records leaves a lot to be desired. For example if I filed an ATI to list the PMQs that I lived in or the pre-1994 military operated schools I attended as a child, I wouldn’t receive any information. Why? That information would be recorded in my father’s service file. Okay, so just find out what service members lived on the bases Williams served on. Still nope. Postings and attachments are in the member’s service file. There was no records of who lived in which PMQs over the years. So, who exactly were the CFNIS investigators in 2010 going to talk to about Williams’ behaviour on previous postings? And it’s not like the CFNIS could go through military police records to look for previous complaints that match the modus operandi of Russell Williams. The military police record keeping system was a complete shambles prior to 1998.

So yeah, let’s go on pretending that the Canadian Armed Forces bases were safe places for children to grow up on and that the pre-1998 military justice system wasn’t a complete joke that was just ripe for the abuse of power.