This one is an easy one.
I’m not a piss tank alcoholic like my father was, so there’s that.
I’m also not a rage prone asshole that isn’t afraid to use physical violence to dominate others.
I don’t make up lies.
I don’t make promises I have no intention of keeping.
To the best of my knowledge my father had no traditions. He was so empty and so damaged that there was noting there. The only other adult that was in my life as a kid was my grandmother, but she was usually so drunk that she couldn’t pass on a tradition is she wanted to